아내 치매 돌봄 기록 손주: My Final Farewell Before I Die

My Final Farewell Before I Die

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At 29, in the face of a life cut short due to a rare form of ovarian cancer, Michelle ‘Mike’ Ng held a living funeral to gather her loved ones while she was still alive.

In our conversations with Mike, she found comfort in the palliative care of Jayne and her team from HCA — one of Singapore's largest home hospice care providers.

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1 year ago (edited)

We’d like to thank Mike & her family for allowing us to preserve this intimate moment of their lives. Though death is a difficult topic to tackle, Mike taught us to never shy away from it, but to look it straight in the face so it has no power over us.

Stories like hers remind us of why we do what we do.

If you’d like, share your well wishes for Mike’s family in the comments, and we’ll pass it on to them.

- Stef (OGS Producer)

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@jackieg7261

1 year ago

My husband just passed away a few weeks ago from cancer. He wanted a wake after his death. I changed it up and gave him a "how did I meet you party". He got to see all his friends, reminisce and just enjoy their time together. No one was allowed to say cancer and I am so sorry statements. It was really beautiful. He was gone less than two weeks later.

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@HaroldBalls777

1 year ago

I have terminal colon cancer with a life expectancy of less than 12 months. That diagnosis was given to me 1 month ago. So I part of my journey now is to use the next 2 months to say my goodbyes to my friends, colleagues - so I can devote my remaining time with my 2 boys and my wife who are involved in every aspect of this emotional journey. I find myself in a race against the clock to download as much of my experience and love into my family and leave no doubt in their minds. My boys are my legacy and the single greatest gift and accomplishment of my time here on earth. My wife gave me the gift of Fatherhood for which I am eternally grateful. Live, love, and repeat. Listen to your heart, move into action today, don't let days slip by. Be open with the ones you love, share in your joys and console in moments of sorrow. Leave behind memories of joy, laughter, sorrow, and love with others around you. God Bless you all.

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@RickyIcecubes

1 year ago

Anyone else think this is so much better than mourning someone in a casket? I think a final send off like this is a beautiful thing.

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@ratelhoneybadger

1 year ago

To have a room packed with THAT many people who love you, is true wealth.

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@irishka_zolotse

1 year ago

She passed 10 days after this event 😢😢😢, thank you, her friends and family for being there for her, with her, comforting her in her last days... she is such a strong woman, such a stron spirit, she is with Jesus now, we will all meet again! RIP sister, no tears no more ❤❤❤

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@dlnnyc64

1 year ago

“Death is not scary. The dying part is terrifying.” Profound in its clarity and simplicity. RIP Mike.

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@monicaluketich6913

1 year ago

A couple of years ago, a very funny, smart friend was diagnosed with cancer in November. The doctors didn't think she would live a week. The family got a hospital bed that they were able to put in the living room ( old house with very small rooms). She LOVED Christmas and all the decorations. We realized that we didn't have room for her normal tree, so I got a 3 foot tree and decorated it with flashing lights and jingle bells - she was basically blind, but could hear the bells and see the lights go on and off. The whole house was decorated inside and out. We all came and visited her for the 3 weeks before she left this earth. The first week or so, the doctor had her on morphine because of the pain, and she told stories about her life. The last days, she seldom woke up, but we stayed there and talked in hopes that she could heard us. Charlotte, I hope you know how much your life touched our lives.

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@Kittensinurface

1 year ago

My cousin died on June 29, 2024 from lung cancer. She was 44 and had two teen daughters. Please pray for them to be strong throughout their lives. <3

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@Dravasky

1 year ago

I’m in my second battle with brain cancer and after watching this, if it comes to a point where there’s nothing else they can do for me, I really like the idea of a living funeral. Her timing was perfect, ten days after her living funeral. So sad but she went out the way she wanted, and got to spend time with friends and loved ones.

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@ErnestJay88

1 year ago (edited)

Honestly, this is better than traditional funeral since the dying one can hear how much her friends and families love her before her time came up, she can really gone in peace. 🌸

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@1101G12646

1 year ago (edited)

I could be wrong but I can definitely tell she's using every fibre left in her body to hold back all her tears. What a soul, I wish her a happy new life in a better place.

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@BecomingGeorge

5 months ago

I was recently diagnosed with brain cancer — and honestly, it turned my whole world upside down. Life just hits different after news like that. I'm now sharing my journey on YouTube — the raw moments, the unexpected lessons, the strange silver linings — all in the hope it helps someone out there. If you're going through something similar, please know this: you're not alone. Sending you love and strength

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@skullcandy15151

1 year ago

This living funeral concept is beautiful.

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@stutisrivastava5298

1 year ago (edited)

I’ve just bawled my eyes out for someone I didn’t know 20 mins ago and I’m forever changed.

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@EphemeralOnlooker

1 year ago

2024 and people are still dying of cancer. Imagine if we put all our funds into cancer research instead of wars and stupid endeavors... May she rest in peace.

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@marcusaurelius5149

1 year ago

We tried to do this for a dear friend of ours but he didn't make it. The tumor was pressing on his brain and causing blackouts. He passed away two weeks before his celebration of life. We held it as scheduled and it was amazing to see everyone together. Most of us were friends because of him. Thank you Spence! I love you, brother.

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@missyd394

1 year ago

Alot people don't get the chance to know you will die ..its a privilege to say goodbye to everyone you love it is a pure gift

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@heidiallen4563

1 year ago

My mom had COPD. She was put on hospice. About 11 days in, she woke up and told me she was done fighting. I called the fam and we essentially had a living wake for her. She didn’t want a funeral, no obituary. She said if anyone couldn’t come see her when she was alive, she didn’t want them crying over her when she was dead. She slept for that last 3 days and passed peacefully with the ones who loved her most in attendance. Death doesn’t have to be this big, scary thing. My mom embraced it, said it was part of life and nothing to fear. I can only hope I’m that brave when it’s my time.

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@Makkar0onii

1 year ago (edited)

Michelle ‘Mike’ Ng passed away on 2nd January 2024. A little over a week after her living funeral which was held on 23rd December 2023.

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@reshijanshiuknow

2 months ago

" if there is no death , you'll never know what life is."

-Mike

@feministiqe

1 year ago

“I want to get well… I want to go back to Jesus.”

I cried. May Her soul forever rest in peace. She was ready to be with God.

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@leebings7443

1 year ago

“You need the clarity of death to help you see clearly in life”. Let that sink in.

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@GreySkyLady

1 year ago

My biggest WTF after my husband died is that he didn’t hear the wonderful things people said about him. While I liked hearing about his impact, he needed to hear that himself. This is absolutely glorious and kind.

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@ЕленаШатравка-ц5з

1 year ago

She had so scared eyes. But she was wonderful anyway. I wish her all the sunshine and all the warmth. RIP, Michelle🙏

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@deeb.9250

1 year ago

Her acceptance makes this event possible. Living funeral so she can meet everyone, hear everyone, and everyone remembers. She seems to have so much energy here. I care for a terminal relative and they still can't come to term with the end, and have all kinds of anxiety and panic.

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@1nePercentJuice

1 year ago

Some people, like this woman, go towards death with such courage and strength. I really admire her for that.

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@jennh2096

1 year ago

As a hospice nurse, this is one of the most beautiful things Ive ever seen. We are all going to be there one day, dont fear it, instead look death in the face by living every day like your last. Dont wait, no one is promised tomorrow

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@harvinkumar6149

8 months ago

Living funeral is better than traditional funeral.

@vp108

1 year ago

This video proves that you don't need to know a person personally, for their story to bring tears to your eyes😢 RIP Mike ❤

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@anerestsang

1 year ago

Crying for strangers is my passion.

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@markharrisllb

1 year ago

My best friend arranged a party to say goodbye when he had cancer of the oesophagus. He became unwell before the party and was taken into hospital, I said I’d go to hospital to visit him. Being northern men we never said a nice word to each other but he was out of it that night so I thought I could get away with saying "You are the best friend a man could hope for." Then as clear as day he said "So are you." He passed that night, as his family were celebrating the man he was.

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@RequiemJr

1 year ago

I lost my sister on 7/30/24. I said goodbye to her. I can't stop crying. It's been days. Why God?!

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@criscryspy

1 year ago

Rest in heaven Mike <3

" it's not about how far we walk, it's about the memories we make. "

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@Whippy99

1 year ago

Thirty years old. Younger than both my children. Michelle was obviously loved tremendously. What a brave, beautiful soul. ❤

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@joytotheworldddd

1 year ago

I had cancer when i was 18. I truly understand how cancer and death feels like. I really appreciate and see my life at a different angle now. Not to be too harsh on yourself, live and let live.

Be happy and love life. These are the things you will truly understand once you had been through the harshest.

I will be turning 29 this year.

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@Mancada100

2 months ago (edited)

What a brave and lovely young lady.

If my farewell is not like that, I am not dying. Period.

@BonazaiGirl

1 year ago

This popped into my recommendations on Easter and now I’m trying to fight off tears. May Mike rest in peace and her family heal from the loss of such an amazing person.

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@hellraiser0457

1 year ago

Why you recommend this video at 2 am, youtube? Now i'm crying so much. The first tear is when her brother said he knew her for 22 years. I can't imagine losing my siblings who i knew my entire life too...

I am an atheist but she believe in God. Then i hope she is in heaven with God and the angels. Happy and laughing without pain or suffering anymore. Rest in heaven, Mike.

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@megsoju

1 year ago

When she talked about wishing she could have children, take her parents on holidays, continue to go cycling, I just hoped she could feel the joy of all those things by being surrounded by her loved ones. As someone with depression, I often want to die. Seeing people who have so much love for and in their lives makes me wish I could give them whatever time I have left. The way her friend hugged her as if she could keep her there just a little longer shows how loved and cared for she is. The way her brother held her hand and spoke about his fear of navigating life without her shows how much impact her presence has. A life where people come together to hold you tight one last time is a life that should go on. I hope she is resting peacefully now and that her light comforts those who had to let her go. ❤️‍🩹

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@Dawn-kv2et

1 year ago

I hosted a final farewell cookout party for my mom before she passed. It was beautiful, and I'd do it again if God allowed. I miss you so much mom. 😢

@Sharibaby80

1 year ago

My dad passed away this morning. I'm trying to get through this and finding comfort everywhere I can. This helped. Thank you Mike. 🕊

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@bernadettevelasco6323

1 year ago

I lost my only child, my son to covid in 2021. By the time i was driven to the hospital, he had already passed away. I scream cried, and went into shock. The chaplain said he could still hear. So i told him how much i loved him, and thanked him for being my son. That was in Dec, 2021, days before Christmas. I still feel raw, like it was ystrdy. Pls keep both john, and me in your prayers. God bless the beautiful young kady who died, her friends, and family. My milestone bday is 4/3. Yet celebrating without john is very painful.

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@tea-and-biscuits

1 year ago

Shocked to see how young she was, just aged 30. As a 32 year old, it reminds me: Life is fragile, love and laugh and live. Don't sweat the small stuff...

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@escallite

1 year ago

She is ok now. She is with Jesus. God wiped away her tears and she is happy now.

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@ghostie7790

1 year ago

Her birth year was 1994, so we are the same age. I cried like a baby when her brother spoke because that's how I feel about having my twin brother in my life too. She looks so tired so I am happy that she got to do this. I'm happy she can rest now.

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@catherineepommett8526

1 year ago

I have stage 4 ovarian cancer, have had a basketball size tumor shrunk with chemotherapy, then was gutted in the OR.

Happened upon Mike’s video and it has given me much to think about.

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@susanlucas1125

1 year ago

Beautiful woman and too young to die...I just lost my brother to pancreatic cancer and very difficult seeing such a vibrant person become very weak and ill. I hope she is able to run and cycle in heaven with the stars around her. RIP.

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@gehlen52

4 months ago (edited)

Good bye, is not forever. Her essence lives on in all those who have learned from her life.

@rachel0304

1 year ago

i'll leave a comment in here so that every time someone likes this I'll see this vid and it'll remind me of how beautiful life is

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@Marrivaf

1 year ago (edited)

Oh my god her saying she holds no resentment just sadness over missed opportunities broke my heart. I needed that reminder I’m so so sorry that In this lifetime she never got to live out those things.. truly heart wrenching

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@marykeria200

1 year ago

What stands out for me is when Mike says that the memories she clings on to the most are "running and cycling". We too often take our health and ability to get up and move for granted, assuming this ability will last forever. Mike's story has reminded me that wellbeing is a privilege not a right. Rest easy Mike, and much love and peace to her family and friends. ❤

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@thomastheman7331

1 year ago

So many came to mom’s wake but they never came to visit her before she died. Both are important.

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@joselito7776

1 year ago

What a brave woman. And there was something different about her glare, like a part of her was already on the other side, but she was concentrating on keeping her still 'living' part grounded despite the irresistable pull of what comes next. RIP.

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@akshataambekar6032

9 months ago

After looking at this comment section 😢i feel so bless to have curable and non-fatal health problems 🙏🏻 may god bless all with whatever they want in their respective lives😊❤

@Fionn-Greyship

1 year ago

This is not a funeral. This is a celebration of life… and the realization that one’s life is finite make it very much poignant

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@cchan4739

1 year ago

couldnt hold back tears when her brother spoke

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@thelostremainunfound

1 year ago

I hope she passed as peacefully as possible. It was clear that she was starting to go from what we see at the party but she tried very hard to be present with them and that is admirable. May her family know peace and her memory be a blessing.

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@camarojai6832

1 year ago

When my cousin very young had an aggressive form of breast cancer we had a “slumber party” like we did as kids…we kept the sadness is other rooms only surrounded her with smiles stories and her favorite things just like Mike request…soar high Mike, double squeeze your brother’s hand 🕊️

@NovahLia

1 year ago (edited)

This randomly played via autoplay. You don’t know how much I needed this video. As someone who was recently diagnosed with an illness that will eventually take me soon. I’m so scared. This gave me a different view. Thank you, Mike. May your soul rest in peace.

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@thrumewindow

1 year ago

I’ve met Mike once in November 2022. She was very sweet and friendly towards me even though we just met. RIP Mike.

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@zadventi3996

1 year ago

I am honored to be a part of a group that watched this video. Mike, i never know you personally, and probably never will, but just so you know, i am thankful to witness the life of yours and your family while you were still alive, you will never be forgotten Mike, rest well. ❤

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@wowmagicmagic6983

5 months ago

It show's the value of life

@Fin44544

1 year ago

I’m from America 48 yr. old female. This popped up. What a beautiful & brave woman prayers to the family & friends.✌🏼❤️

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@bresbackburner

1 year ago

My grandma passed from stage IV ovarian cancer last year. She got to plan her whole funeral from the music to the flowers. It was so surreal.

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@fefemyluv

1 year ago

I don’t quite understand yet why I needed to see this on Ressurection Day, but I’m sure it will come to me. Thank you, Mike, for your testimony of life and death. May you rest with our Lord. May God cover your family in comfort and remembrance.

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@goddessanahata5276

3 weeks ago

You can see how much she cares as she looks on as people speaks.

@justevalang9473

1 year ago

Wow my sister just passed away a week ago from agonizing pain and suffering from uterus cancer. This VIDEO touched my core IT IS SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL . RIP ❤

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@lickkkkit

1 year ago

"I'm descending from my throne!!" that made me laugh while crying. Mike, I hope that your soul is running and cycling and smiling. Rest in peace, thank you for sharing your journey because you've touched me and many others by doing so. I hope your friends, family and loved ones are coping well, I'm sorry your life was tragically cut short, fly high angel.

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@sam76861

1 year ago

I think this wonderful. I have stage 4 breast cancer and I really don’t want a funeral. I think something like this would be much nicer.

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@hanzhang1025

1 year ago

I cant stop my tears.. wish I had done this for my dad who passed away from lung cancer

@Chris-pb3se

1 year ago

Stories like hers are a rare gift to the rest of us. If you’re watching this you’re probably counting your blessings, you’re appreciating small things and letting go of things you should. By allowing this video Michelle has shown us some special truths

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@nataliesoutlet

1 year ago

What a beautiful and special video. Thank you Michelle and family for allowing us to be a part of this moment. The brother hand squeeze broke me down 💘

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@hopestephen2012

1 year ago

I would love to hold a meeting like this for my dad who is battling with stage 4 cancer. How I wish his friends and loved ones can show up.

@khuvang6842

7 months ago

I came here looking for perspective and guidance in my life… thank you for the cold bucket of water into my face. Thank you for sharing your life.

@Debweb95

1 year ago

I have not seen a living funeral before. She has so much courage to host it. May her sould rest in peace 🤍

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@me_zarlish71

1 year ago

My sister also died when she was 30 due to liver shrinkage... 😢 she was also very brave girl ...may her soul rest in peace❤

@adamk.3229

1 year ago (edited)

As someone struggling with depression and thoughts of death... Thank you. This video helped. Life is short, yet deep.

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@vince-m8m

3 weeks ago

Such profound moments with loved ones..she fought a good life..RIP❤❤

@Restyoursoul287

1 year ago

I never met this woman in her life time, but God, her transition was so moving. A human soul creating a beautiful space to say goodbye ❤.

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@snowwhite5842

1 year ago

My aunt did this and it was beautiful. She was absolutely radiant and appreciative of everyone gathering in her honor. People laughed with her, prayed with her and cried with her. So much better than filing by a casket with an empty shell in heavy makeup.

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@adhiantos

1 year ago (edited)

I only get to "know" Mike in these 17 minutes. But I can already tell that she was a great human being. Kind, strong, determined and loving. This has truly opened my eyes. I think we need to make this a normal thing. To celebrate one's life when they're still here, instead of sobbing beside their coffins, wishing we could turn back time.

"If there's no death, you don't know what life is". Rest in peace Mike.

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@GULPAction

1 year ago

R.I.P, I just wish that everyone on this earth will have good health, live happy, live long, and be wealthy. May everyone be well, happy, healthy and wealthy.

@elisha9946

1 year ago

Every time i think my life is hard or I have nothing to look forward to please remind me to come and watch this again, to be grateful to be alive, have my people around me. May your beautiful soul rest in peace love ❤️

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@Derlei

1 year ago

The last 5 mins broke me. It always pains me to see young lives gone due to cancer. Gone way too early. Michelle, I am sure you will be missed and remembered by all your love ones.

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@zenawarrior7442

1 year ago

She's very lucky to have so many who cared for her before she passed🌸💐🌸

@catcatcat14

1 year ago

she was such a wise and sweet person, i can see it clearly. RIP Mike

@poornimaachary9178

1 year ago

She was so brave to even have the living funeral event, it was so emotional, she was so young. I really hope she is in a better place now.

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@bellissimialberi

1 year ago

Thank you for allowing me to be part of this. RIP "Mike" rest in peace...💔

@MegaCharm16

1 year ago

I am currently studying to become an end of life doula , so that I can help create beautiful memories of a person’s life! My condolences 💐

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@QqpgHjklF

8 days ago

Rest in peace 🕊️🕯🙏🏻

@mythoughts6922

1 year ago

Too pretty, too young, too smart! Sorry for her family's loss and her loss. A big gain for heaven.

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@LampardCF

1 year ago (edited)

This is the by far the heaviest but most necessary kind of video that I have ever watched, literally could cry at any point in the video. Life is short, and we take too many things for granted. Thanks OGS for this reminder and lastly, RIP in MIKE.

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@keshontashontel

1 year ago

My Sister has been gone only 3 months from cancer and it’s been hell without her. Memories are the only thing that keeps me going and some days even that’s not enough. I pray for peace and comfort for you and your family.💕

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@myu4419

1 month ago

Rest in peace <3

@kennedyhow1997

1 year ago

Farewell Mike, may not know you in person but you’ve certainly touched our hearts. May you rest in peace.

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@angijac18

1 year ago

I like when she said she was descending from her throne! Her eyes were so wide and intense, she was taking in every last moment with complete mindfulness. Her personality was so cute and kind and loving. Rest in peace beautiful soul 🖤

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@ixora3956

1 year ago

Rest in peace Mike. Back in 2016 we were in the same group for Athletes in Christ camp. May God bless her soul and Condolences to her family

@myraw2849

1 year ago

R.I.P. Mike. Thank you for your bravery and sincerity to share it with all of us. ❤

@Ontheroxxwithsalt

1 year ago

It's so cliché to say it, but we really don't give people their flowers when they are here to enjoy them! Funerals and wakes are for those left behind and nobody who speaks of passing EVERY wants to think of their loved ones being sad or crying for them.

I think this is an AMAZING idea! Share your love and say your words BEFORE someone leaves. Send them off with all the love. Don't wallow when they're gone! Smile and laugh while they're here to participate. 😊

@andrewmacdonald4833

1 year ago

29...so much life to live...heartbreaking...

@imaczech

1 year ago

Don't take things for granted until you lose them. Appreciate the ability to breathe the air, see people, spend time with the loved ones, and do things you enjoy. It's really a mental shift, but adopting this mindset can lead to a more fulfilling life.

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@kentssl8709

8 months ago

In spite of the advancement in technology and medicine we still have not found a cure for cancer. So sad that so many people still have to go through so much suffering and pain.

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@SwimKam

1 year ago

Friend asked for this. Was so glad. Miss her. She was wise to do it so she we could tell her exactly how deeply she was loved by everyone

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@JoyCassi

1 year ago

It’s Easter Sunday and this time is hard. Thank you Mike for showing me not to fear death and love while you’re here. You touched so many lives. Including mine. You truly were and are an angel.

@mnmssss21

2 weeks ago

I’m still here by the grace of God. I had a stroke that almost took me out. I was given 3-6 months to live. That was such a hard pill to swallow I was not ready to go yet. But 7 times my kids were told u wasn’t going to make it. I’d come back my family would come visit me every Sunday so Sundays was like saying goodbye every time they leave. It was like a nightmare. 3 1/2 years later I’m here. May God watch over you Mike such a beautiful woman so sorry you had to move forward with God. RIP ️️

@annanowak9620

1 year ago (edited)

Not even 2 minutes in the video and I felt anxious and started to cry because of this beautiful person 😭

@machouchoute

1 year ago

She seemed so graceful. She must have spent much time reflecting as she had profound words to share. I'm sure she is at peace now, and she is walking with God. Much love to her friends and family.

"May this goodbye be only momentary."

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@misstinahamilton5714

1 year ago

As an RN who has worked in hospice and palliative care for over 17 years - this is beautiful . Please don't ever take the experience of death away from those that are dying . I say this because I encounter clients and their loved ones will often say - " don't say the word hospice , don't say they are at end of life - they will just give up etc.... " I have no choice but to comply but it's very difficult for me . Because guess what? The patient already knows . I've had patients at the end stages of dementia tell me " I know I am dying ." Rather than hide what is happening - be honest - start processing and celebrate the life that is left !

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@WendelDandridgePhD

3 weeks ago

Intentional goodbyes are so beautiful.

@clay2889

1 year ago

RIP Mike. I'm glad they were surrounded by so many caring people.

@bpdslayer

1 year ago

I'm 45 year old bloke and I like many here teared throughout. Beautiful soul Mike is, Rest in Peace ❤

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@fraunussi

1 year ago

I survive ovarian cancer 8 years ago... Hopefully i have still a Long time on earth 🙏🏼 No more tears... No more pain...

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@kimi1206

1 month ago

I find myself coming back to this video time and again

@omabayoungisaubameyang3242

1 year ago

This is not a funeral, this is a living thanksgiving party. To remember the stories with each other.

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@Erin-b4l

1 year ago

Rest in peace and joy with Jesus sweet lady🙏💜🌹

@Ippido

1 year ago

Rest in peace dear 🙏🌹

the question at 10:15 was really awful and insensitive, no no wonder Michelle didn't answer...

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@H.K.5

1 year ago

Rest in peace, Mike 😢

@Autisticmomfaith

1 year ago

When she said "God is with us... Emannuel" tears welled up. What a bitter sweet event. God bless them all... <3

@reza.valianton

1 year ago

Damn, i am a big man and I'm crying while watching this. I have liver and kidney problems, most of people with my kind of problem rarely surpass age of 45, and now I'm 32 years old. I considering myself have around 10 years to live. When you realize you have that kind of countdown on your life, it will change the way you see the world. I am feeling more alive now than before, and this video remains me the good side of humanity and consciousness. It's beautiful.

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@pinkblossom8401

1 year ago

I don’t think I’ve cried so much for a stranger before. You were obviously a beautiful human being and evidently, you were loved by many and I’m sure missed enormously by your friends and family. May you rest in peace.

@scottmalkinson6983

10 months ago

Its so sad when the person that shared memories with you becomes a memory.

@RodgeciKartowirjo-Rynix

1 year ago

"I want to go Back To Jesus" WAS SOO WHOLESOME I'm Sure she is with Jesus. Rest in peace Mike

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@Sunny19704

1 year ago

She really makes you think about the simple things in life like flowers from a friend RIP Mike

@ashleylarose7473

1 year ago

She was already an angel while alive. I hope she is resting in peace now. Bless her spirit 🥹💓

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@athui.05

3 weeks ago

If i was there i couldn’t stand a minute without crying

@jryland6

1 year ago

I couldn’t finish watching, it broke my heart for someone so young to be ravaged by disease that affects anyone, at any age. I cried for her having to leave her life of being with wonderful family & friends. Mike, some people who knew you, posted sweet, endearing messages to you. You were truly loved. Maybe, somehow you’ll know that. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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@littlekayatoast

1 year ago (edited)

A strong woman. May Mike have a safe journey in heaven. Rest in peace 😢

@Doenstop

11 months ago

God bless her soul. Rest in peace.

@KnutNukem

1 year ago

Thank you Michelle for making us part in your final gift.

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@phuongvo3051

1 year ago

Loosing a family member always horrible, I lost my brother 10 years ago but sometime I hold his shirt I kept and I talk with it , I miss him so much , that pain never go away 😢😢❤❤

@huilin0708

1 year ago

In every victory, let it be said of me, my source of strength, my source of hope is Christ alone. She is with Jesus now and she is well.

@FoxxoIRL-e3n

1 year ago

0:26 Her face XD like "Um...okay I guess"

@Dantheman8222

1 year ago

Poignant reminder to live life, take care of your health, spend time with your loved ones and do meaningful things. Rip Michelle 🎉

@thereisnoaddress

1 year ago

Rest in peace Mike; seems like she went back to Jesus right around Christmas. Thank you for inviting all of us internet strangers into the final moments of your life, and thank you to the OGS crew for documenting it so beautifully with respect.

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@teresaburke1868

1 year ago

I Love that letters were given to each she loved

Peace to all. Love is Infinite

@abbassabehman-b2k

9 months ago

Im from Pakistan, but honestly i m crying see to her face😢

@brandip77

1 year ago

What a beautiful person. She controlled the narrative of her end. I have a lot of respect for that. My condolences to her family and friends. It seems the world is robbed of so many wonderful people like Mike.

@Blossom_1936

6 months ago

My grandma just died of lung cancer on her b-day. She turned 70. I still can’t let go of her but my family always supports me.🩷

@UndinePoetry

1 year ago

I watched this with a lump in my throat. 😢

The loss is bitter but we hope for a different world, a world where souls reunite once more. It's a silent promise that one day, beyond this one, beyond boundaries of time and space, there will be love.

@soul_less_23

1 year ago

This kind of video makes me realise how precious our life is. i was neglected myself for years, severely obese. in 2022, i've decided enough is enough and i've started my journey to take care of myself. it made me realised how bad was my lifestyle and someone else's in this world is fighting to get their healthy self again. RIP Mike. i'm sure you were a delighted person.

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@mpaula.p3

10 months ago

Such a bright soul❤

@wookehdookeh

1 year ago

I am 28, survived a massive surgery in December 19th. Cried in acute pain on New Years and went to the ER the day after for sepsis. I had a giant mucinous adenocarcinoma removed from my right ovary.

I fear death and I fear cancer, I just watched my Lola die to metastatic cancer recently. My older mother died the day before my birthday… on Valentines...

I am not ready to die, and want a family and to be married. I don’t want to die and say eternal goodbye to my significant other.

I feel intensely for Mike, she is beautiful and brave. Thank you for this video… really hard to hear another woman my age go with the cancer I endured. We really do fight, keep fighting..

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@anhcharizard

1 year ago

This is the type of documentary I needed after my dad's passing. Like Mike, he was always surrounded by various of personalities and it always made him stood out the most. I wished we did something like this for him; not only recording his thoughts about his cancer but also just his vision and ideas, around loved ones with the remaining life he has left. I imagined it to be somewhat like this, so thank you for sharing this. RIP <3

@BoobieSinclair

1 year ago

She’s a beautiful person and even from death she still impacting the world in a beautiful way

@Apetetrek

9 months ago

god bless her soul,brave lady

@amber4.44

1 year ago

she's so strong this is not easy

@t.shamoan1646

1 year ago (edited)

My Daddy just passed away 3/17. They diagnosed him with prostate cancer back in 5/23. Told him he had less than 6 months to live. Every day, he cried, waking up knowing each day could be his last. He could no longer walk, so he lay in bed all day with death on his mind. He gained his wings just 2 weeks ago

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@JoshPaa

1 year ago

Thank you guys for always telling great stories of the things we never think about in our daily lives. we may be passing people like Mike everyday not knowing what they may be going through.

@申屠易

8 days ago

I can't finish watching the video 😭

@graceng8511

1 year ago

My mum faced relapse from her cancer after 2 year fight. Her departure came abrupt after her relapse news. Mum wouldn't share her feelings and so I believe Mike had said how my mum would have felt when she heard the news :( RIP to my mum and Mike.

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@happyguy4525

1 year ago

RIP Michelle. Ride on 2 wheels wherever you are

Love from Toronto Canada

@spati0809

1 year ago (edited)

The character of a child is the testament to the parents. May you always feel her love.

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@fl6294

4 months ago

She was so loved. That is, perhaps, the greatest gift of all.

@yis4346

1 year ago (edited)

in Sep-2020, one of my husband's close friends held a birthday party when he realized that would be his last one. All the friends showed up, he was so happy. 6 hours later, he passed. So, that was a living funeral, I still have a sticker on my car.

@lincolnlove1855

1 year ago

Beauty. She’s telling us beauty gets her through dark days. Profound really. Beauty is holy.

@helloitsme3997

1 year ago

I was crying the whole 17 mins 😢

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@R0de0_szn

1 year ago

“You need the clarity of death to see clearly in life” is so profound. It really encompasses how I feel since losing my dad last year and gave me the words I couldn’t find. RIP Mike, thank you for sharing this piece of your story for us to bear witness to

@LastYak

1 year ago

Accepting death take courage and gives a sense of true satisfaction. Thank you mike for making me realize the importance of life. May you be reborn in peaceland.

@DeniseSkidmore

1 year ago

I'm so glad we threw the big bash for Dad's 70th birthday while he was still fit and able to appreciate everyone coming to see him. He passed without a lot of forewarning, and people who wanted to visit then were unable.

@flp109

1 year ago

This was incredibly powerful and taught me many perspectives. May she rest in peace 🙏🏼

@マンナセリー

2 weeks ago

I cried so hard

@Life.Greece-n3t

1 year ago

How strong she is .❤❤❤sending hug and prayer

@senlus5522

1 year ago

So brave and courageous. I really admire her.

@beautifulstranger101

1 year ago

Honestly I can see her soul trying her best to stay put for the living funeral. She only felt sadness, not resentment. Which is prolly why she passed soon after. I totally get her sadness about what she was gonna miss out on as I get to her age (lol I’m just one year younger) too.

@aulia11180

1 year ago

Rest in peace...you have beautiful soul

@orlayajade

1 year ago

I wish my family was able to do this with my grandma before she passed. Unfortunately, my gma passed away unexpectedly, so we never had the opportunity. 😥

@chrissieng8146

1 year ago

Such courage and wisdom, at such a young age. I am 64, and I still don't have her wisdom. What a beautiful soul. I wish the best for her family.

@Yulian-23

1 year ago

Rest in peace Mike 🤍

@silverelgrandlow

1 month ago

Whoever is behind the team editing this in OGS deserves a raise because this is an incredibly tough watch. I cannot imagine to be there in person documenting and editing the life of a wonderful soul. It would either send me to therapy or I would be in tears non stop.

@RoySim1991

1 year ago

I am 32 years old guy..and I teared down throughout the video..we should really cherish life and spend more time with people around us..

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@treasureween

1 year ago

RIP MIKE! I hope you are no longer in pain. I pray God gives your loved one comfort.

@hansensse

1 year ago

I truly cried my eyes out.

@HelenRachael

2 months ago

She seems like such a special person and a kind soul, the fact all those people turned up for her shows the impact she must have had on people. And she’s so right, without death, we cannot truly value life. Rest in peace. ❤️

@ThePlaguedRaven

1 year ago

This was heart wrenching. She has a natural charisma and charm about her, too good to be dying at this age. I am 30 now and couldn't imagine dying a year ago as I feel like like my life is just beginning in many ways. It really is so critical to really soak in everyday that you're here.

@감성돔2

1 year ago

Michelle,

I was devastated when i first heard about your recent news. I regreted not reaching out to you earlier. Thank you so much for the best memories and being my bestie for secondary school times. I will keep that memories and times deep in my heart and for the rest of my life. Love you and RIP 🙏❤

- from Korea, Belinda-

@darbeuujayy

1 year ago

This video really hit hard, my dad had just suddenly passed away in early-Feb'24 and I'm still coming to terms with it. Death indeed sobers one up and helps us see more clearly in life. Hope that Mike's loved ones continue to stay strong & positive, and may she rest in peace.

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@muskayrai.6161

1 year ago (edited)

Praying for all the people who are suffering some diseases and cancer 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@Isntshelovely03

1 year ago (edited)

This takes me back to 12/10/2023 when we lost our youngest sister to cancer. She had just turned 43 on 12/1/2023. This is tough. I’ve felt so helpless as my sister dealt with excruciating pain 24/7. She couldn’t sleep. She couldn’t eat. Couldn’t even drink some water. Sedatives and massages were all that comforted her. I miss you lil sis! I keep going to the phone to call and laugh at the silliest things like we use to but then I’m quickly reminded that you won’t pick up. This still hurts. Sending love to this family because I know exactly how you feel. Be comforted by the good memories and not dwell on those that were unpleasant.

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@iolanisjourney4828

1 year ago

That was a very insensitive question to ask of her, to explain who she imagines herself to be as an elderly person knowing that she will not get to experience being elderly. Please have more compassion and empathy towards people when you are preparing your interview questions. Other than that this was beautiful. RIP Mike 💜🙏 sad that your life ended while you were so young but I know you are in Heaven now with The Lord and no longer in pain.

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